3 Women Tell Us What Happened When They Had a Stroke

Every year, more than 100,000 Canadians have a stroke, and around half of them are women.Most stroke sufferers will experience whats called an ischemic stroke, where a clot blocks blood flow to a part of the brain. When the cells on the other side of that clot stop getting oxygen and nutrients, they die, which causes brain damage and lasting symptoms like memory loss or paralysis. Because each side of the brain controls the opposite side of the body, people who have a stroke in the right side of their brain will often be paralyzed on their left side (and vice versa).Others will have a hemorrhagic stroke, which happens when a weakened blood vessel in the brain leaks or bursts, flooding the surrounding area with blood and causing the cells there to die.Finally, a mini-stroke (the medical term is a transient ischemic attack, or TIA) is when a clot temporarily blocks blood flow to the brain before breaking up on its own. It causes symptoms for an average of 15 minutes and resolves within 24 hours, with minor damage. But its often a warning shot that youll have another stroke within the next few days, says Michael Hill, a neurologist at the University of Calgary and Foothills Hospital and a prominent stroke researcher. For that reason, it definitely warrants an ER trip.The most important thing to know, says Hill, is that the main risk factors for stroke are one: hypertension, two: hypertension and three: hypertension.He explains that blood clots usually develop from uncontrolled high blood pressurealso known as hypertensioncombined with additional factors (such as high cholesterol or smoking). When the pressure of the blood flowing within your arteries is higher than it should be, it damages the walls of those arteries, and your body dispatches white blood cells to the site. When that damage is combined with high cholesterol floating by, sticking to the white blood cells, it results in the accumulation of plaque on the artery wall. The plaque may cause clots, and a big clot can completely block the artery its in, or float to another part of your body and cause trouble there. If it blocks the blood flow to your heart, thats a heart attack. If it impedes the blood flow to your brain, thats a stroke.This is why its so important to check your blood pressure periodically. Both women and men should aim for a reading under about 120/80 mm Hg.The risk of stroke is also higher if you are older than 55; if you have a family history of stroke; if you are obese; or if you have diabetes, high blood cholesterol or atrial fibrillation. People living in poverty (who are more likely to be women than men), some members of racialized communities and Indigenous people, and people living in rural or remote areas are also more likely to have risk factors for stroke, and are less likely to have access to consistent or comprehensive management of those health issues.Recently, newer research has revealed heightened stroke risks that are specific to women: Having endometriosis, taking estrogen-containing birth control, being pregnant and being on hormone replacement therapy all slightly increase the likelihood of stroke. If you experienced pre-eclampsia during a pregnancy, your risk of a stroke later in life doubles.But while some of those risk factors might be out of our control, there is plenty that women can do to lower their risk of stroke, including quitting smoking, getting active, eating more fruit and vegetables and keeping blood pressure in check.Some good news: Over the past decade, medications and treatments for strokes have improved dramatically, and considerably more Canadians who suffer a stroke now survive. One newer, game-changing treatment is called endovascular thrombectomy (EVT), in which doctors go into the bloodstream after the clot has blocked the blood flow with a small flexible tube and physically pull the clot out. At Foothills, which was one of the first hospitals to test and pioneer this extraction procedure, Hill worked on a study finding that, for very large, serious strokes, EVT has radically improved patient quality of life and cut death rates in half.It has transformed care for that group of people, says Patrice Lindsay, director of health systems at the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada.But these new meds and interventions work best if people seek help within minutes of having a stroke. Statistically, we can show that every 10 minutes makes a difference, says Hill. Coming in early can make the difference between walking out of the hospital two days later or being in long-term care, paralyzed.

Carla Hindman

Communications professional and 44-year-old mother of three in TorontoI was only 41 when I had a stroke. I was at my office, and at around 1 p.m. I went to the bathroom. When I went to wash my hands, I looked at myself in the mirror and I couldnt see properly. I thought, This is really weird. When I finished washing my hands and walked back to my desk, I put my head down and started to cry. A colleague beside me was like, Whats going on? And I said, Somethings wrong with my eyes. But then I said, I think Im having an ocular migraineI had had one before. I didnt know that vision changes were also a sign of stroke.My colleagues decided to call my husband, Matt, who worked across the street. We jumped in a cab together to go to our doctors office, and by the time we got there, my face was drooping, I was slurring and I had weakness in my left side. Matt was thinking, Oh my God, this looks like a stroke. Since we were in front of my family doctors office, he decided to take me inside instead of wasting more time going all the way back downtown to the ERhe thought it would be better to get medical advice as soon as possible. But they took one look at me at the doctors office and called 911.When we were waiting for the ambulance, Matt told me to raise my hands. I raised only the right one, and he said, Both of them! I yelled back at him, I am raising both of them! but my left arm was dead at my sideI just didnt know it.I dont remember anything after that until midnight. But I had left the doctors office in an ambulance, and they had assessed me, given me clot-busting medication and put me in the ICU. My mom had flown in from Ottawa to be with me, and Matt had gone home to be with our three kids. The nurses were coming in every once in a while, showing me flashcards, asking me what the pictures were. My mom said that at midnight it was like a switch flipped, and I was back to normal.At the hospital, they found a hole in my heart, which I had no idea was there. They said that this was what caused the strokethose holes can allow blood clots to travel to the brain instead of the lungs, where they would normally go. A year later, I had a procedure to repair it, and now my risk of a stroke is as low as an average persons.I was extremely, extremely lucky: I didnt have any lasting physical deficiencies after the stroke. But I do have a few issues with short-term memory still, and sometimes I have trouble coming up with the word I want. And I was exhausted afterwardI was off work for a month and then had to do a staggered re-entry after that.I didnt know that people my age could have strokes, but now I have met so many people who have had them in their 40s. It happens all the time. I think everyone should know what the signs of a stroke are and that vision changes are one of them. If more people knew the signs, and that young people can have strokes, they might feel empowered to call 911 in situations like mine, and a lot more people could get the help they need faster.

Kathy Isaac

Cybersecurity executive and 47-year-old married mother of two in Ajax, OntarioI had a stroke two years ago while I was in the ICU, hospitalized for COVID. After about two days, I woke up with extreme nausea, and I was dizzy and vomiting for days. But my doctors didnt realize what was happening, even after my left hand started to feel strange and heavy. Eventually, I realized I couldnt hold my fork in that hand.A week later, when a physiotherapist came to prepare me to go home, she was the one who noticed the signs of stroke. They did a brain scan, and a doctor came the day before I was supposed to leave and said, I have bad newsyouve had a stroke. I thought he had the wrong person. I actually said to him, No, Im Kathy.In my head, Im thinking, Im 45 years old. Strokes are for older people. Im better, Im going home.Even after I realized something had happened, I still felt like, if Ive had a stroke, what does that mean? They started to talk to me about neuroplasticity, and they explained that the best window for recovery is the first six months.So I wasnt wasting any time. I started walking in my hospital room while I was still attached to oxygen. Then I did outpatient therapy: physical therapy, occupational therapy and a little bit of speech therapy, too. I had a singular goal: I wanted to go in one direction, to make progress. I did everything they asked. And I did wellI hit the physical milestones by about three months out.But it still all felt so heavy. I had a meltdown one day with my physiotherapist and just cried. Eventually, I was connected to the Heart and Stroke Foundation and the March of Dimes. I was in a young stroke survivors group for a long time.Just before I went into the hospital for COVID, I had graduated from Ivey Business School in London, Ontario, with my MBA. It was hard, really hardI did it while I was working as an executive, and as a wife and mother. I thought about quitting. But the motto at Ivey was trust the process. And I decided, no, Im gonna tough it out.That was an important life lesson. When I went to rehab, I knew to just put in the work, and trust the process. Im a born-again Christian and I do believe, like the Bible says, that all things work together for good. To me, the MBA prepared me.Im a few years out from the stroke now. My mobility is really good, and work is going well, tooI think I perform very well. But I have to work every day to not regressI walk or use my spin bike. And Im not the same. My balance can be a little wonky, I cant handle noisy situations and I have more anxiety. I still have precision issues in my left hand because the message from the brain to my left hand is delayed. If I type with both hands, the right hand will be fine and the left hand will be behind.One of the biggest challenges Ive had is friends and acquaintances thinking Im all better. Im not looking for sympathy, but I need people to understand that Im not 100 percent. Even when I park in a disabled parking spotwhich I need to doIve been confronted by strangers when I get out of my car. Because I dont use a cane or a walker, I dont get the understanding and help that I need.

Earle Hoyte

76-year-old retired church administrator, caregiver and grandmother in TorontoOne weekend I went on a short trip. After I got home, off the train, I said something to my granddaughter, and it felt like it wasnt coming out right. But when I asked her if she could understand what I was saying, she said yes. And I also felt very tired, so I just went to bed.In the morning, my tongue felt very heavy, and when I went to put on my lipstick, my hand kept falling down. My son-in-law and daughter-in-law were there and they said, You dont sound wellwe should take you to the hospital. I knew I wasnt fine; I felt different. But I didnt know it was a stroke. I thought only old people had strokes and I was only 75.And I didnt realize what else was happening to me. At the hospital, the nurses recognized it immediately as stroke and pushed me through. The doctors did a lot of tests. But I didnt realize the effect the stroke had on me until the doctor asked me to sign my name on a document. It was only then that I realized I couldnt. I was just scribbling.They told me my stroke was caused by atrial fibrillationan irregular heartbeat. I didnt know I had it before the stroke. They put me on blood thinners, and with atrial fibrillation, its quite easy to have another stroke. So I have to be quite careful, and take my tablets every day.After I left the hospital, I was referred to the University Centre location of Toronto Rehab. Before I went, I didnt know what to expect. I was scared. But everybody I met there was so warm to meeven the receptionist. They were very positive, and it helped very much.I went there for three months, as an outpatient. We worked on the physical: I had to walk with a walker, and up and down stairs, and practice stepping over things. They focused on my balance a lot, too.They also worked on my memory, because whenever I tried to speak, I had to think for a long time to remember what I wanted to say. And a speech therapist helped with my voiceI used to sing in the church choir, and I couldnt sing anymore. My drivers licence was suspended, and they worked on that with me. I even did a driving simulation at Toronto Rehab.At one point, I didnt want to go, because I was feeling depressed. They referred me to a social worker, and to the March of Dimes program for people with disabilities. Now I go several times a week. March of Dimes has a stroke textbook, too, that I wish I had had before, because it tells you what to expect, what questions to ask, who is going to see you and what each person will do for you.Ive improved a lotIm back to singing in the choir, and Im able to be a caregiver to my elderly sister. But there are things I cant do anymore, like baking or reaching items off the highest shelves. I had to completely rearrange my kitchen. Holding my arms down for so long, or holding something heavyits too hard.I wish everybody knew that if your body feels strange, seek help. You dont know what it isit could be anything. Especially if its something you havent experienced before. Dont say, Let me wait and seeseek help immediately. Thats the key.Next: How Heart Disease Affects Women Differently Than Men

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